Where have all the mature believers gone?

What happened to having mature conversations between believers? Seriously! I'm fed up with the people over at the christianity.com forums. They have warned me and Chase because we made violations to the website rules. What are our violations you might ask? Well, I started a feed on "Is swearing wrong?" and said s*** and crap in one of my posts. I said them as an example to explain my point, not to be vulgar. I compared the two words to prove mt point. My comments were read out of context and I was warned for breaking the rules. Needless to say that this didn't sit well with me and Chase. So Chase tried to put a link to his blog so we could talk about it there. They people in charge liked this even less, so they kicked Chase off the forums completely. At this point I was so frustrated I didn't much care what that people at christianity.com said. So I started posting for Chase. This led to a warning again and they told me to not discuss the matter on public forums. So I proceeded to post a reply that said, "I love the censorship of this website. Yah for no freedom of speech!" A few minutes after this happened I was kicked off the site for good. I was not allowed to explain or give a reason for my actions, I was just removed. Narrow-minded enough for you? When did Christians become so narrow-minded that we can't even have adult conversations anymore? I find it childish and completely ridiculous. It's like people don't want us to ask questions about our faith but just accept it. I find that very dangerous and harmful. If we don't ask questions, then it's not our own faith; and, if we don't have our own faith, then who's is it?